Raijin
A Mage that loves a Templar
High King Torygg was not corrupt, he was well loved by his subjects who knew him. He was only High King for a very short time, he was young and in love, yet people like you say he is bad because he showed affection to his lover. Is it bad to treat someone you love like they're the world to you? He wasn't a grumpy cold bastard.
High King Toygg was in deed corrupted by Imperial coin. We can keep arguing it until the cows come home. I could imagine how much Septims the Empire was shipping over to Torygg to be on their side. It's been proven that the Empire was shipping chests of gold to the Jarls from each hold to make them happy. Loving his wife does not give him the exemption to ignore what was going on in his land. The only man that knew exactly what was going on was Ulfric. He praised his father, but not him. Skyrim is a very harsh place to live in, and that's a pure fact right there. If the High King isn't doing a good job he either quits (which is non-existence since his pride would be tarnished) or fight to the death to keep his title and position as High King. Torygg was young and immature. His people call him a BOY... that is not showing respect for your king but rather disrespectful.
Torygg would be a grumpy cold bastard if he experienced what Ulfric had... to be brutally tortured by the Aldmeri Dominion, and to witness death of many in the Great war.
"I fight for the men I've held in my arms, dying on foreign soil. I fight for their wives and children, who's names I heard whispered in their last breaths. I fight for we few who did come home, only to find our country full of strangers wearing familiar faces. I fight for my people impoverished to pay the debts of an Empire too weak to rule them, yet brands them criminals for wanting to rule themselves! I fight so that all the fighting I've already done hasn't been for nothing. I fight... because I must." - Ulfric Stormcloak